Writer’s block can strike at any time, often accompanied by feelings of inadequacy and anxiety. Last week, a simple crossword puzzle became a symbol of this struggle, highlighting the insidious nature of comparison in the creative process. A cafe, normally a haven for productivity, transformed into a place of procrastination. The crossword, a welcome distraction, inadvertently triggered a deeper introspection.
The Trigger: A Crossword Puzzle and a Flood of Book Announcements
The crossword puzzle itself wasn’t the problem. The problem was the underlying anxiety fueled by recent book releases from fellow writers. Seeing their successes amplified through glowing reviews and marketing campaigns triggered a spiral of self-doubt. Two separate announcements, both from accomplished women around the same age, felt like a double blow. Their prolific output served as a stark contrast to what felt like a “meager” personal writing output. This feeling was further exacerbated by living with a similarly successful writer, constantly reinforcing the comparison.
The Comparison Trap: A Common Struggle for Creatives
Comparing oneself to others is a common human experience, particularly prevalent among creative individuals. While healthy admiration for peers can be inspiring, unchecked comparison can lead to crippling self-doubt and paralysis. The constant influx of information in today’s digital age, with social media showcasing curated versions of reality, only intensifies this struggle. Acknowledging this tendency is the first step towards breaking free. While striving for excellence is admirable, measuring success solely against the achievements of others is a recipe for discontent.
Finding Focus: Practical Strategies for Overcoming Comparison
Just as a crossword puzzle requires focus and strategy, overcoming comparison requires intentional effort. One effective approach is to limit exposure to potential triggers. Delaying email checks, for instance, can create a protected space for focused work, minimizing distractions and unwanted comparisons. Acknowledging competitive feelings, much like a confession, can also be cathartic, allowing for acceptance and release. Ultimately, returning to the task at hand, focusing on the intrinsic value of the work itself, is the key to overcoming the paralysis of comparison. Quitting distractions, in this case email, proved to be the solution. By silencing the external noise, it became possible to reconnect with the internal drive to write. This experience underscores the importance of recognizing personal triggers and implementing strategies to mitigate their impact.
